Jennifer sent me this email sometime ago and I would want to share with all my friends here. Quite a long but touching story... Enjoy!

 

On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms.
The bridal car stopped in front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of the car in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and shy. I was a strong and happy bridegroom.

This was the scene ten years ago.
The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid; I went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were steadily increasing, the affection between us seemed to ebb. She was a civil servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the same time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.
Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was more likely to be affected by unpredictable changes.

Dew came into my life.

It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This was the apartment I bought for her.

Dew said, you are the kind of man who best draws girls' eyeballs. Her words suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we were just married, my wife said, Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.

Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my wife. But I couldn't help doing so.

I moved Dew's hands aside and said you go to select some furniture, O.K.? I've got something to do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy, because I had promised to do it together with her. At the moment, the idea of divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something impossible to me.

However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No matter how mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt.

Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing dinner. I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we watched TV together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew's body. This was the means of my entertainment.

One day I said to her in a slightly joking way, suppose we divorce, what will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word. Apparently she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I couldn't imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious.

When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all the staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide something while talking to her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently smiled at my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.

Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.

When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I've got something to tell you, I said. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the serious topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!

That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew.

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The woman who had been living ten years with me would become a stranger one day. But I could not take back what I had said.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer.

Late that night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw her writing something at the table. I fall asleep fast. When I woke up, I found she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again.

She brought up her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but I was supposed to give her one month's time before divorce, and in the month's time we must live as normal a life as possible. Her reason was simple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she didn't want him to see our marriage was broken.

She passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, He Ning, do you still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day? This question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me. I nodded and said, I remember. You carried me in your arms, she continued, so, I have a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when we divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from the bedroom to the door every morning.

I accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished to end her marriage romantically.

I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face the result of divorce, she said scornfully. Her words more or less made me feel uncomfortable.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly, Let us start from today, don't tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for a bus, I drove to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a long time. I found she was not young any more. There were some fine wrinkles on her face.

On the third day, she whispered to me, the outside garden is being demolished. Be careful when you pass there.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were still an intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The visualization of Dew became vague.

On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as, where she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I nodded. The sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Dew about this.

I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. I said to her, It seems not difficult to carry you now. She was picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a few but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she was thinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger. I knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart. Again, I felt a sense of pain. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head.

Our son came in at the moment. Dad, it's time to carry mum out. He said. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential part of his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad.

On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. She said, actually I hope you will hold me in your arms until we are old.

I held her tightly and said, both you and I didn't notice that our life lacked intimacy.

I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door. I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious. She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no fever. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I can only say sorry to you, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her into the home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am old. So I have to say sorry to you.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.

When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my wife which was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until we are old...

Has been using something new for the past few days or was it a week or more already? Was trying to explore it and enjoying the functions etc. Well, let me introduce to you the new "kid".

My newest addition of HP... Nokia E71! Wahaha... traded in 2 HPs and top up with $$ to get this HP. Was contemplating of getting and kinda waiting for other models (if any). Was considering Samsung InnoV8 etc but guess I am too used to having QWERTY Keypad le. There was once when I switched to use K800i and I was super not used to it. Normal keypads will slow me down instead.

Nothing else interesting caught my eye and I decided to get my hands on this HP. Happily using it. Functions were nothing new as I was using E61i previously. Love the Nokia PC Suite. I am able to sms directly when the HP is in sync with my laptop, saving me time to type out pressing the QWERTY keypad and also, organising of Contacts were super easy with the program. So was the Calendar for my appointments etc. :)

Guess which color I got? Wahaha... I bought the Grey Steel one. Heard that for White Steel, the package consists of white leather case whereas for Grey Steel, it was black leather case. Never mind la... I dun really use the black leather case anyway. Rather use a pouch to contain so it would be able to protect the whole HP instead of exposing certain areas for scratches etc. Anyway, Grey Steel looks more classic ma. :P

Was thinking of changing my blogskin for sometime but each time when I think of it, was lazy to put it into action. Started doing abt 2 hours ago? Yes... call me crazy. Was telling Dearie that I am tired and want to sleep already. End up, went to see some blog skins and see something interesting. Didn't pick that particular skin and chose something else instead.

Pinkish skin... not so much into the couple pic as shown in my previous skin but in any case, my countdown ticker is still around. Added in a new one. Wahaha... it's the countdown ticker to me and Dearie's customary wedding! Haven't really tell a lot of people exactly when yet but guess since I am changing the blogskin, then might as well put a new ticker. :P

OK... I shall continue blogging tomorrow. Must go to zzz le. Last night slept at 5+am and now... haiz... losing my beauty sleep. Tata!

Wishing all my friends a very Merry Xmas and Happy New Year!

Happy Holidays!

 

 

Updates updates...

Went to do eyelash extension on Sunday prior to Shan's wedding. Was thinking left and right. Went to Bugis and then to Orchard. Didn't want to do at first but then... finally mustered all courage to have it done. It was not that pain as I imagined it would be but... to maintain it is crazy! I got to be more careful when removing my makeup, washing face, bathing etc. It's a torture! Frankly speaking, after this experience, I rather spend more than on putting on mascara than to spend time on washing face and drying my face.

Was looking for people to accompany me to go have them remove today. I have received comments on my eyelashes. Colleagues said it's nice, open up my eyes etc. But... too bad, was not able to bear with it. So... going to remove them this evening! Asked Dearie to go with me. Hehe... My Dearie is the best! Muakz!

Anyway, back to the things I did before going to attend Shan's wedding. Woke up and went to do my hair. Had a cut and also, highlight and lowlight of my hair. Now... my hair is red! Some of the highlights are very reddish lor. In bright red! Some said I look more refreshing. I dunno leh... maybe just nice for the festive seasons? My hair is short now... got to be good girl and try to keep it longer ba.

My hairstylist did some curling for me for the dinner at night. Kinda regretted cos I think it made me look old. My dress... was loose at the chest area and I didn't put on the straps to hold them. I recalled I did had them altered before for another dress, which is of the same brand but Metro dun have such services I guessed. Was a bit awkward at the dinner, asking Dearie to help me adjust my dress and pulling it up when no one is noticing. Wahaha...

Dinner was yummy. Atmosphere was nice and cosy. Shan looked very very pretty! Hehe... glad that she is happily married to Mervyn. Wishing them all the best and happiness in the marriage! Hehe... kept saying the same words but I guess even if I don't say them, Shan will understand what I meant and where I coming from. :)

Took some pics at the Dinner and after dinner with Dearie. Didn't manage to take a lot cos Dearie was saying to take them after dinner and after that, not much mood liao what. Nvm... take more next time when we have other events or outings! :)

The Ang bao box with a cute couple bears!

 

I put the bear beside the candle and in front of the menu. Nice? :P

Wedding Favours. Bear bear and Chocolates

Me and Ivy

Me and Dearie

Ivy and the Pretty Bride, Shan Shan!

 

2 Happy Couples

 

Xmas Tree of Bears! I want to bring them home!

Me and my Dearest Dearie... Looking Sweet and Lovely ya? :)

Before saying Good Night... More Zhi Lian Pics... Wahaha... LOL...

Dunno what to put down as blog title. So... shall leave it as ... ... ... ... Hehe. Ya la... I know I am bo liao. Wat to do? The boredom monster likes to come visit me every now and then. A lot of monsters just take their turns to come and disturb me on a daily basis. There is this sleepy monster. Makes me sleep so long into the day, making me feeling sleepy and keep yawning away. Grouchy monster, affecting my mood and making me moody and untouchable. Snacky monster, making me looking and craving for tibits and snacks all day. Cranky monster, making me feeling not myself, going crazy and mad. Haha... a lot of monsters hor? :P

Anyway, went Causeway Point with Dearie last evening. Ate at Pizza Hut. Super full with the Cripsy thin Ocean Catch Pizza and the Xmas Platter. The Strawberry Delights drink was yummy! Hehe. Shopped around and managed to get a dress for Shan's big day tomorrow. Wahaha... was looking and looking and cracking my tiny brains. Selected one. It's in my favorite colour lor. I took pics of it to show Yvonne last night. Not going to post here. Shall be a surprise for the bride tomorrow. :P

Didn't go home with Dearie as he was going to play basketball in the morning with Eldest Bro. Furthermore, Mummy told me to be home earlier today cos we are going to eat dumplings at night. Dearie said it's kinda meaningless for me to go here and there and so, I was back home, watching tv and playing games on the internet. So So bored lor!!! I normally spend my weekends with Dearie and this weekend, spending it alone. Haiz... Was contemplating of going out to do my hair today with Yvonne but... I slept late last night and only got up at 1+pm today. Was also thinking of going to get eyelash extension but a bit scared also. I scared my own eyelashes will drop when the fake ones are removed. As for my hair, I scared that my hair loss will worsen and my hair will become more dry after the chemicals etc. Headache lor. I am contradicting ya? Wahaha... What to do? Want to look pretty but yet lazy and scared. That is why they said... there are no ugly woman in the world. Only got Lazy woman! I am one of those lazy ones ba... hehe...

Got a SMS in the middle of the night last night. It was from Irene, my sec sch friend. She has just given birth to a healthy baby boy! :) Happy for her! Estimated delivery was around end of the month but I guess the baby decided to be out slightly earlier than his father. Haha... Why did I say so? Cos Chris, the father of the baby, birthday is on 21 Dec! Haha... just 27 minutes away from his wor. Baby wants to have his birthday celebrated first before wishing his dad ba. Hehe... Cute ya? :) Irene is resting at Mount Elizabeth and will be discharging on Monday. Guess I will wait till 1 mth later then go visit her and their new addition to the LAU Family! Congrats to them once again!

Hehe... I haven't been updating my blog due to having late nights and when I thought of coming in and rant abt things, became lazy and gone off to do other things instead. No worries... Things have been going on pretty much ok and nothing major happened, except for a few irritating drivers on the road whom might have banged into me and cause some accidents? Wahaha...

Well, here are the things that I have been doing for the past 1 week...

Last Sat, went over to visit Shan and Irene at LaCasa. Passed Shan her presents and was glad that she likes them. It's some small gifts from me and she also passed me some presents. Got another Precious Moments figurine from her as Bday Present. Loving it! Next time will have a display shelf for them together with the BB Gundam that both me and Dearie were collecting. Shan also got me Crabtree and Evelyn hand cream. Came in handy as I was contemplating of getting them for myself. Hands have been rather dry recently. Dunno why wor. Is it because of air-con environment or I have been washing more things as compared to last last time? Hehe... *Hint to Dearie. I know you will read my blog. :P

Anyway, after having dinner @ Shan's place, me and Dearie went over to Irene's house. Her place is just opposite blocks of Shan. Next time I can easily visit both of them at the same time and maybe... a MJ session? WAhaha... super long never play liao. My sec. sch friend, Irene, is expecting and her expected delivery due date is anytime soon... probably end of the year or earlier? Hasn't been seeing her and decided to go by her place when she was home from her in-laws. Finally got to see her and her Timid. Timid is a golden retriever. Irene loves dogs and I envy her... get to rear dogs lor. Timid is very very playful and is a young puppy, despite his size. Golden retriever can grow to be very big despite for their age but they are very friendly dogs. Kept playing and licking me lor. Dearie dun really dislike dogs but when Timid licked him, he dun really like it. End up, he sat faraway, watching tv and seeing me playing with Timid. Timid was licking me all over and I kept hugging and sayanging him. Became kaka and kuku when it comes to dogs... this is me. Wahaha...

Played with Timid and talked to Irene till abt 11+pm and headed home with Dearie. Rested at his place that night and on Sunday, didn't do much except playing game and watching TV lor... :)

Monday... met Dearie and we headed to Vivo. Was hunting for Shan's super belated bday present. She wanted a fan for her place but... after looking at some models and the prices... decided it was kinda bad to get her that even though it was what she requested. It's like... a bit pai seh to get that for my best friend. Also, I dunno if she and Mervyn will like the model or the functions that we select. So... sms her the other day and ask her for other alternatives as present instead. Didn't receive the reply from her and decided on other things for her. Met Yvonne at PS and accompanied her to look for some candles that evening while she helped me to choose something for Shan. Yvonne bought me Swensens Ice-cream while I was picking Shan's present. Ate Sticky Chewy Chocolate. Yummy! Wahaha...

During lunch on Wed, my marketing colleagues brought me to Geylang East Central to eat and we had to wait for more than half an hour for fish soup! According to them, this stall is quite famous one and a lot of people like to eat for it's really value for money. Tried the soup and it's nice. Must admit. After lunch, walked around abit and saw my favourite... Fried Banana Fritters!!! Otherwise known as Goreng Pisang!!! I super duper long never eat this liao lor. Bought one and eat together with my colleagues. They had 1 each too. Although not super sweet kind of banana, I was happy to eat it. Sometimes I got craving for it but... my working place dun have people selling that. When I see it, I am either too full to eat or... dun feel like eating. So... that day when I managed to eat it, I was happy! Easily contented with the food hor? :P

Evening time, my ex-colleague, Angela, wanted to date me out but end up, we arranged to meet next Tue instead. Met Dearie instead and we headed to IMM. Dearie's fan was spoilt and so we bought a new one from Giant. I shopped for some stuff at Daiso and Giant as well. Also bought some stuff from The Face Shop. Everywhere was full of people as they tried to get Xmas gifts to give to their loved ones and friends. Saw some CNY goodies at Giant le. Haha... kinda early to see that when Xmas is not even here yet right? But well, just 1 mth + later will be CNY liao and so... not really that early ba. In fact, even myself has bought some CNY deco for both my house and Dearie's place. It happened that the industrial park beside my office has wholesaler selling and after lunch, me and my marketing colleagues bought lor. I even bargained for discount leh. Hehe.

Thurs, met Dearie and had dinner together with Elaine, Terence and Rebecca. :) Elaine had invited us to attend Terence's Surprise Bday party but we couldn't make it and so... decided to meet outside and passed to Terence his belated bday present. It was gift exchange? hehe... cos Elaine passed me Bday present as well! Loving them... She got me Precious Moments Muscial Jewelry box, badge, bookmark, pouch and pencil. Was contemplating to get some items when I saw them previously but now no need le. So nice and cute... Thanks for the presents! :)

Elaine asked Wendy, Chris and Stella to join us as well but they couldn't make it.Nevertheless, we had fun eating at Hotpot Culture. We 3 ladies were happily talking and eating our mini steamboat while Dearie and Terence talked abt stocks, soccer, etc. Had a lot of fun and laughter that night. It's definitely nice catching up with them, having yummy dinner and desserts. Halfway thru dinner, I got sms from HDB, announcing the launch of another BTO, Dew Spring at Yishun. Showed to both Terence and Elaine. Both of them were applying for BTOs, hoping to get their own flats but no luck so far. Dew Spring is located very near to Jade Spring 2 and if they get the flat, we are going to be staying very near to one another! Talked abit of the fun we could have together if they manage to get the flat... hehe... Knew they submitted their application the following morning. Wishing them all the luck here in their balloting! :)

Fri, went to meet Dearie for movie at PS. He brought me to watch "YES MAN". Nice movie. Not bad. Definitely much better than "Twilight". Can go watch if you need a laugh ba.

Sat... lazing at home. Wrapped some stuff and going out to Causeway point later. Need to go do some redemption before Dec end. Wanted to do it last week but prolonged and delayed. Shall be doing it today ba. Will be staying over at Dearie's place tonight... :)

Oh yes... collected some of my Spree clothes yesterday. Now having headache on what to wear for Shan's wedding, which is on Monday. I was contemplating of getting a new dress for the past few days. Didn't know what to wear also... Help!!! She has asked me to help her at the reception and I am getting a bit scared and yet, excited at the same time. I scared I am not able to go a good job for her. Worried... I know she will be worried on her end as well, especially it's her big day. It's once a lifetime thingy wor. But well, I will try and do my best for her.

Some words / advice to Shan:

My Dearest Shan, do not worry about what people have to say or comment. Although it seems like holding customary wedding is not for yourself and Mervyn but rather for the parents and relatives instead, bear in mind that as long as you and Mervyn are happy, the rest doesn't really matter. It's a once in a lifetime thing and thus, just try to relax yourself, stay pretty and let others worry abt the things for you on that day. You have a bunch of good friends around and rest assured, everyone of us will try our best to ensure things go on smoothly on that day. Just enjoy yourself, immerse in the presence of well wishes, blessings and happiness, enjoy the process and not worrying about how things might turn out to be. It's going to be a memorable day for you and so, choose to enjoy and live every moment of it with smiles and happiness, not with the worries and stress. Will want to see you marrying Mervyn with the bright smiles, seeing you shine among the rest, showing us how blissful and happy that both of you are ok? :)

Alright... Dearie nagging at me to go bathe liao. I better go prepare le...if not, he is going to strangle me!!! Tata!!!

Bro was saying that he will drive me to work today but end up, I drove myself to work. During the journey, I took out my wedding band and was applying moisturiser on my hands. When I took out the rings (was wearing both the wedding band and engagement ring that Dearie bought for me), my wedding band dropped into the slot beside the passenger seat. Was trying hard to dig for it but couldn't feel it at all.

Reached office, parked the car and spent some time in the carpark looking for my ring. Was shifting the seat here and there, moving front and back of the car, trying to feel my ring, see if I could spot the ring. I started to panick when I couldn't locate or spot it at all. Oh dear... Bro will be driving tonight and over the weekends and who knows what might happen to my wedding band. No matter what, still must find it before going into office. I felt uncomfortable when I couldn't find it. Dearie will surely say me later cos I just managed to find my pendents and now... my wedding band could have gone missing!

Continued digging and luckily, found it. It was caught in between the seat and I had to push it through to make it fall out and then go to the back seats to retrieve it. Had shifted the seats a few times lor. Tiring... Wahaha... but no choice. Wedding band is very impt! No matter what, must locate and retrieve it! :)

Sitting in office now... Jennifer bought me KOPI C. Hehe... my saviour for the day! Glad to have kopi C to keep myself awake and energetic for the rest of the day. Dearie is going to spend a night over at my place tonight. Finally... after 1 week plus of not spending time with Dearie... today we could spend our weekends together liao! Can't wait for 6pm to come.Wahaha... ya la... I know now just 9+am and I am looking forward to getting off work liao. Very kua zhang but dun care. I want to see my Dearie soon! Muakz! :P

Might be meeting Yvonne later too. My SO... hehe... should be heading to Bishan ba. See how... waiting for her to confirm! :)

Finally... my Dearie has finished his exams. Met him yesterday and today. Missed him so so much! Passed him some presents and glad that he likes them. Wahaha... His wifey me got good taste one ok... :)

Went out shopping with Yvonne on Monday. Tried the "Fried" Gelato ice-cream that was featured on TV. A lot of different flavours and mixture. Not bad in a way but not my favourite cos there were some alcohol content in the flavour we chose. Me allergic to alcohol but luckily... nothing red has came up. *Touch Wood* and pray hard that nothing pops up. hehe...

Met Jayne and her hubby for 2 days. Tuesday and Wednesday. Went Orchard on Tuesday and they treated me dinner at Crystal Jade. Had a durian pancake from Four Seasons too. WAhaha... Met them together with Dearie on Wednesday and had MOF. Bought the limited edition of Precious Moments umbrellas! Loving them... so pretty lor. Was telling Dearie that I want to go back to Suntec to take photos of the Xmas Deco there. Nice nice lor!!! See when Dearie can bring me go. :)

Went out with Dearie today too. Headed to Vivocity. Was kinda lost and dunno where to head to. Dearie was asking if I want to watch any movies but I guess I only want to watch "Twillight" for now. Has sneaks on Weekends wor. See if Dearie will want to bring me a not ba. We have things to do though... See how.

Anyway, Dearie bought me and mum presents from SK Jewellery! :) It's a belated bday present for my Mummy. I helped to choose it and when home, showed to Mummy and she loves the present! It's a pair of pearl earrings with Gems and Diamond. Hehe... As for me, Dearie got me a pendent. Yes... another diamond pendent from my Dearie.

SKARLET Diamond Necklace

Hugz! Hehe... by the way, managed to find my "missing" pendents and plus the new present, I got 3 pendents le. Muakz! Dearie really pampers me and showers me with a lot of love. Felt bad that he spending more and more... Sorry Dearie... know that you want to make me happy and dun wan me to spend so much. I wouldn't want u to spend so much too... Love u for loving me so much. Big Hugz to U!!!

Didn't do much on the long weekend. Went out yesterday with Yvonne to Causeway point. Oh my... there are sales everywhere! Talking abt recession. People are still buying things here and there, creating long queues at cashiers, spending their money in getting gifts for people. I know it's Xmas time and it's the spirit of giving and sharing... Well, everyone will be enjoying themselves ba. :)

Bought something for both Dearie and Mummy. Dearie was asking me what is it but I refused to tell him. He said I should not have tell him that I bought him something and then refused to tell him anything. Well, there won't be any element of surprise if I am to tell him now what I have bought for him ma... So... just let him wait till after his exams then my Dearie will get to see his presents. Hehe...

Did something with the photos I took on my Bday and sent out to my colleagues. Haha... What do u all think? Nice?

Anyway, woke up at 2+pm today. Slept late last night. Was super tired. Didn't do much today except playing game, surfing website and watching tv. Bored and has a lot of craving suddenly for food. Yes... FOOD! Was telling Dearie I feel like eating steamboat, ice-cream, HK Cafe, etc. Oh gosh... dunno why I am longing for those food. Being putting on weight... really got to stop all those junk food. Finished my pack of gummies today and I still want more. Haiz... Turning into a pig le. Jia lat... someone please stop me!!! :P

Hehe... Some of u would have known by now. 3 Dec was my bday. Shall let the Pics do most of the talking this time round. Wahaha

Dearie was not able to spend the day with me and he made up to me with this!

     

Didn't expect to receive from Dearie as he was mentioning that the flowers would not last and it's not economical to send me those. Hehe... Dearie knows how to sayang and pamper me. Given me a lovely and sweet surprise with this!

What else did I receive? Came to office in the morning and found this on my seat, sitting comfortably at my spongy cushion.

 

This blue bear was given to me by Jennifer, FIona, Chloe and Kenny. Even the card has a bear on it! Cute right???

The blue bear looks like part of a family of bears with what Collin has bought for me sometime ago. Couldn't resist but to put them together for a shot.

 

Hehe... Got to re-arrange my table to house these furry friends lor. So... here is how my table looks like now.

Hehe... Dearie also sent something to my office last year and when I was thinking that the bears look like a family, I think that what Dearie has sent me for both years are like a family too!

And I still have the card that Dearie sent me last year in the office. Hehe... msg content is different and so is the addressee name. Not showing the msgs here! Secret between me and Dearie. :)

Wanna guess what else was given to me? It never dawned on me that my HR & Admin Colleagues would get me this. It was really a big and pleasant surprise. Beside a dark chocolate cake, I got this.

   

Collin chose it and was telling me this is for me to match with what Dearie has bought for me. She has thought of getting me this even before Dearie gave me the present. Touched!

    

That's not all. After work, went to Xin Wang Cafe @ Marina Square with Collin, Jennifer, Fiona, Chloe and Kenny. Wanted to go for Hotpot Culture initially but was too full to eat buffet. Settled for Xin Wang instead. Jennifer, Fiona, Chloe and Kenny had something else up their sleeves. After the meal, they get the staff to bring out this.

 

It's Mango Cake from Secret Recipe!!! Fiona went to buy the cake and had walked quite a far bit of distance to get me this cake. Yummy lor! Me love Secret Recipe cake. Sinful but simply Yummylicious!!! They sang me 2 bday songs, English and Mandarin version. They sang louder and louder and I was super pai seh to have other patrons turning around to see what was going on at our table. In any case, took a few more pics!

Love u all for making my bday a memorable one. It has indeed being a fun and joyous day for me and I really enjoyed every moment of it. Thanks to all who took the effort to make me feel special and loved. They are really a bunch of sweetest friends that anyone could have. Big Hugz and Kisses to all!

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